The Fashionable
muslimah

Thursday 1 November 2012

LETTING GO



 A dear friend sent me this write up and thought I'd share it. The author is unknown but I love the message inherent. Am presently pondering on this short but loaded write up and trying to rationalise it from an Islamic perspective. Hmmmmm...

I have come to realize that one of the hardest things in life is to love someone and then have to let them go. Watching them walk away or realizing that maybe your life without them would be better is no easy task. But at some point you have to stop thinking about others and start thinking about yourself. Nothing is ever easy when it comes to love. It takes a lot of work. But sometimes, even when you think you have found the one, you realize that you are not truly happy. With who you are and what you have become. "If it makes you happy, do whatever it takes to make it work. If you fail, you can at least say you tried." No matter what the cause behind a heartache, never forget that everything happens for a reason but, sometimes the hardest part is figuring out what the reasons are. But also know that God would never close a door without opening a new one. It's just another ending to a chapter. 

No matter how much it hurts, and no matter how much you want to run back, you have to put yourself first. No one is there to take care of you except yourself. So, never stop trying and always get back up. You will be completely happy again someday. So I will end with this. I believe that if love is meant to be, then it will find a way. Sometimes people just need to take a step back and rethink things. Their lives, their own well being. Letting go is not easy, but no one ever said it
would be. Life is hard, but you have to make the best of it. And just when you think your about to give up, you find what you have been longing for. Real love. The kind of love that makes you happy inside, gives you butterflies, gives you a reason to smile every day.

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